The Climb

Nobody’s job is you.

Your board wants performance. Your team wants certainty. Your investors want the number. Your family wants you back in the room at seven. Every one of those is legitimate, and not one of them is looking after the person carrying all of it.

That is the gap I fill, and it is a strange one, because from the outside you are winning. Revenue is up. The team has grown. People tell you it looks great. And you are the only one who knows how much of it is running on you personally — the decisions that still come back to your desk, the relationships that exist only through you, the knowledge that lives in your head and nowhere else, and the quiet arithmetic of what it is costing to hold all of that up.

I have been in that seat. I built companies for two decades, including one I helped carry through its growth and sale to private equity, and it was only afterwards that I understood how much of my own capital I had spent doing it. Nobody was looking after that part. Nobody's job was me.

This is probably right for you if: the company runs through you and you know it; you make big calls alone and have nobody to think out loud with who has no agenda; you are strong in two or three areas and quietly overdrawn in another; or you are approaching something significant — a raise, a hire, a sale, a partner — and want somebody in it with you rather than reviewing it after.

Both halves, every month.

Most coaching picks a side. Business coaching treats you as a machine that needs a better operating system. Executive coaching treats the company as background noise. Neither works, because the constraint moves — some months the answer is a cadence and a decision matrix, and some months the answer is that you have not slept properly since March.

The Life Quotient scores those five in about five minutes, and it becomes the baseline we work from and re-score against. Your strongest capital is not a compliment; it is the lever. Whatever you did to build it, you already own, and it transfers to the weak one.

Ninety minutes, four movements.

Long enough to get past the update and into the actual thing. Short enough that we do not wander. Here is the default shape.

• 0–15 minWhat movedWe start with the assignment from last time, read back as evidence rather than as a status update. Not “I have been thinking about it” — the page, the conversation you had, the number you now have. Where it did not move, we spend the time on why, because the reason is usually more useful than the task.
• 15–60 minThe workOne thing, taken all the way down. Not five things skimmed. This is where we build the org change, model the raise, script the conversation you have been avoiding, rehearse the board update, map the concentration, or sit with whatever is actually keeping you up. You do most of the talking for the first ten minutes and considerably less after that.
• 60–80 minThe decisionWe name what you are going to do, who else needs to know, and what would tell us in thirty days whether it worked. Decisions made out loud, to another person, with a date on them, get made. Decisions you carry home do not.
• 80–90 minThe assignmentEvery session ends with something specific to build, decide, or stop doing — and the next one starts by reading it. Insight without an assignment is entertainment. It is usually smaller than you expect, and that is deliberate.

Between the sessions

You get my notes within a day — what we decided, what you own, what I own. The assignment is on one line so there is no ambiguity about what “done” means. And I hold the thread: I keep a running read on your company and your capitals across months, so you are never re-explaining context. By month three I know your business well enough to notice when something is off before you say it.

The plan is a default, not a rule.

Your distributor gives notice on a Tuesday. Your head of operations resigns. The term sheet arrives with a clause you do not understand. Your co-founder wants out. You have not slept in nine days.

That becomes the session. We put the plan down and deal with what is actually happening, because a coaching program that makes you wait two weeks to talk about the thing that is on fire is not coaching, it is a subscription.

Practically, that means the shape flexes. If you need two shorter conversations this month instead of one long one, we do that. If something lands the day after a session, we move the next one up rather than leaving you with it. If a whole month gets swallowed by a crisis, the month is not wasted — how you handle a crisis is usually the most honest data we will ever get about the five capitals, and we read it that way.

What the opening cycle looks like.

That is why three months is the minimum. Not to lock you in — because one full cycle is the shortest honest test of whether this works, and anything less measures your enthusiasm rather than the method.

What good looks like a year in.

• The business runs a full week without you — and you have the evidence, not the belief. A week on the calendar, chaired by other people, with the notes they wrote.
• You can name the six decisions that are only yours, and everything else has a home, a limit, and a person.
• Your weakest capital is not the one it was. You have a trend line across four re-scores instead of a feeling about how the year went.
• The fragility is priced and shrinking — the concentration number is coming down, the critical inputs have second sources, and every seat that matters has a named second.
• You have somewhere to take the hard call before you make it, which changes the quality of the calls more than any single piece of advice ever does.
• You are not carrying it alone — and the people at home can tell the difference, which is usually the outcome that turns out to have mattered most.

I cannot promise you outcomes, and neither can anyone else — your market, your team and your own choices decide far more than I do. What I can promise is the structure, the attention, the preparation, and that I will tell you the truth even when it is not what you booked the call to hear.

Operator first, investor second, psychologist underneath both.

Two decades building companies. I have run the payroll, made the wrong hire, carried the concentration risk, and sat on the other side of a term sheet I did not fully understand. I carried one company through its growth and its sale to private equity, which taught me as much about what it costs as about how it is done.

Three years on the other side of the table. As a venture investor I have read hundreds of decks, cap tables and diligence files, which is how I know exactly what a buyer or an investor sees when they look at your company — and how early they see it.

A doctorate in industrial-organizational psychology. This is the part that makes the rest work. Everything here is grounded in strengths-based, solution-focused practice: we amplify what already works rather than excavating what does not. It is why the method starts with your strongest capital and not your weakest, and why the assignments are small.

The whole journey, written down. Scalewrights exists because I got tired of watching good founders lose to structure rather than to the market. The books cover the full arc — start, raise, scale, sell — and the coaching is where a specific company and a specific person meet those methods, in the right order, at the right time.

Four honest exclusions.

• It is not therapy. It is coaching, grounded in psychology, and the Life Quotient is a reflection tool rather than a clinical instrument. If what you are carrying needs a clinician, I will tell you plainly and help you find one. That is not a failure of the engagement; it is part of it.
• It is not a course, a cohort, or a membership. There is no library to fall behind on and no group call to dial into. It is you and me, twice a month, on your actual company.
• It is not a fractional executive. I do not run your company or take a seat in it. The entire point is that you can run it, and that it can run without either of us.
• It is not for everyone, and not for very many. I take a small number of people at a time, because the value is in knowing your business properly rather than in remembering which one you are.

Plainly, before you book.

The intake session, and why it goes both ways.

It costs nothing and there is nothing to prepare. No deck, no data, no tidying up first. You tell me what is actually going on — the version you would tell a friend, not the version you would tell a board — and I ask the questions I would ask in a first session.

By the end we both know whether this is a fit. I mean both. I take a small number of people at a time and I would far rather tell you honestly that I am not the right person than take three months of your money and find out together. If I am not the right fit, I will say so and point you somewhere better, and that costs you nothing either.

If you have taken the Life Quotient, bring the report. It gives us a running start and about twenty minutes of our conversation back.

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